When we started developing the website, we read the posts of Rosane regarding Environment & Manking in our orkut community. She reflects the things so nicely that it is understood very easily by all. So, an idea came to our mind to present her knowledge and innovation through blogs by attaching it to our website. In this way, we can help lots of people (that is the mission of our group).

When we sent her a mail discussing this idea, we got a reply in a day. You yourself read her views on writing the blog:

"The peace I have today is different from the peace I’ve dreamed one day.
Only with time, have I learned that peace is to take responsibilities and fulfill them; is to have serenity in the most difficult moments of life.
Today I want to hear and speak words that build. I want to have the courage to cry or to smile whenever I feel like doing it...
I want to accept with humbleness that I don’t know everything, but I want to share the little I know.
I like to remember that nature is so exuberant exactly because the differences it shows in its creatures. Each one of us is special, on Earth, and we have the mission that the Divine Creator has entrusted us.
I want to bring: peace, joy and much news."

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Manage your negativity


Have you ever thought what negativity can do with you?

Negative words which others speak for you or you speak with yourself can change your whole future. Have you ever thought your negative words have the power to destroy a bright career of someone as well as yours? On the contrary, have you ever thought that empowering words can change whole life of you whether you speak them with yourself or others speak them for you?

Have you ever listened for you these negative words?

“You're good for nothing",

"That’s not for you",

"Stop being too ambitious, it's not for people like you",

"You are nowhere near that...stop dreaming",

"Look at you...you look horrible",

"That's impossible!"

“You are nothing”

Remember the time when someone said these words to you and how you felt that time. Remember when you felt that negativity for you after a setback in your life. Remember when your negative thoughts broke you and you had nothing which could support you.

And many time you said to yourself negative statements:

"I am good for nothing"

"Is this really made for me, I am perhaps not made for this"

"perhaps I can’t get all the success, it’s all for others, the lucky ones"
This is yourself talk which makes you more depressed.

This time positive words, positive gestures, empowering words do hard work for you. These words hold you and make you happy and confident again. Yes words can lead you to success; they can lead you to confidence. Most powerful thing with a successful person’s life is the words which he said with him or to others. This therapy of positive words can heal everything; it can give you the power to change everything. Start to try out the perfect recipe towards Happiness and Success.
Pause for a moment, sit back and tell yourself "I WILL ONLY SPEAK POSITIVE AND EMPOWERING WORDS.”

Try this for 7 -10 days, yes, just for few days and you will know the difference in your life. While you do this, do not criticize, blame or complain anyone.
Don’t say ‘I will try’ Do it and if you fail, Try again and see yourself what happens!

Words have the power to grow you, mentally, physically and emotionally. You will never be able to grow beyond your words, so watch your words very carefully. Let’s find the strength that words can give anyone. Words can make you as they can break you. Use only those words that expand you, fill you with positivity and growth and make you happy.

I know it’s not easy to convert every event of life into positive thoughts. But if you can believe on this that it is possible to think positive at every stage of life, keep faith in God and you will be able to think positive soon.

Look at this real story:

Once a man’s newly constructed house demolished after a heavy rain. That family invested everything they had in construction of that house. Within few days they were to shift in that house. Whole area was shocked after that event but owner of that house distributed sweets to everyone and said “Supreme God gave us his blessings as he saved me and my family as if this house would demolished after our shifting, no one would have alive today”
This shows a man can think positive in any circumstances

Lets do positive self talk with yourself, don’t feel shy, and don’t feel you can’t do this, everyone can change. This is a scientific process and medically tested on thousands that we can change our way of thinking. You can say with yourself

I am the best

Today is wonderful day

I am awesome, and always do things with perfection.

Appreciate yourself; don’t wait for others to appreciate you.

Talk to yourself and say, I will not say anything negative about others or for me. You can manage your negative thoughts.

Try to replace negative self talk with positive words. It may sound strange in the beginning but there is no harm in trying, Words can encourage your and others, words of appreciation, words of love, words with fun and words that empower you and others and words that spread happiness. Say to others

"You have done a great job"

"I like what you do”

“I like who you are"

"Wish you the greatest heights”

“Don’t forget me when you get success"

And many more that you can say. Be the guard to your mind’s door and ban the negative defeating words into your life.

Commit to speak only EMPOWERING WORDS, CONVERT those WORDS into EMPOWERING Action and find the new EMPOWERED YOU

Remember WE ARE AS GOOD AS WE SPEAK!

4 comments:

  1. Ajay, You are great!!

    You should write more in English too.

    Very good post. thanks!

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  2. Once a man’s newly constructed house demolished after a heavy rain. That family invested everything they had in construction of that house. Within few days they were to shift in that house. Whole area was shocked after that event but owner of that house distributed sweets to everyone and said “Supreme God gave us his blessings as he saved me and my family as if this house would demolished after our shifting, no one would have alive today”

    This shows a man can think positive in any circumstances.
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    This is really great example to think positive.

    You have said right that negative thoughts can be maneged by thinking positive in any scenario.
    Everything has some positivity in it. Need is to practice it and then have patience to let it become a habit.

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  3. Dear Rosane
    Thanks for comment..
    In english you are far better then me. come soon join us and hold your seat again..
    Thanks

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  4. Thanks Mohit
    We are trying to make this world a better place to live by doing small things. Thanks for joining us

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