Cell connections, text messages, emails, chat rooms, social networking sites, the media have never been so varied and accessible as today. But all this access to the virtual world can bring loneliness when replacing concrete forms of human contact.
A smile and the sentiment expressed in the look into the eyes of a person can hardly be transmitted by phone or through messages on the computer screen.
Feeling lonely is not the same as being alone. Many people seek to be alone to meditate or to pray. Loneliness is a painful feeling.
In large cities, thousands - even millions - of people are living very close to each other, it is ironic that this accumulation causes loneliness.
In large companies, the frequent transfer of employees to other cities or even other countries makes them feel lonely, insecure and isolated. The bar language, lack of friends can contribute to the feeling of loneliness. Leaving home takes people away from their neighbors, friends, school and sometimes family. So they feel like a plant that was torn from one place and planted in another, but whose roots were left behind.
Those who are unmarried because they have not yet found a spouse also tend to experience periods of loneliness.
Many persons go through these moments in life, it takes time to trust new friends at a point to relax and get very comfortable in their company. We must think that no culture is right. Take the better of each one of them. Seek for qualities in others’ cultures. Sometimes just a question is necessary to start a long friendship.
Thinking positively also helps make new friends, especially if you're open to friendships with people of all ages. We can learn much from the life experience of others.
And we cannot let go our friendship with God; who created men and women:
A smile and the sentiment expressed in the look into the eyes of a person can hardly be transmitted by phone or through messages on the computer screen.
Feeling lonely is not the same as being alone. Many people seek to be alone to meditate or to pray. Loneliness is a painful feeling.
In large cities, thousands - even millions - of people are living very close to each other, it is ironic that this accumulation causes loneliness.
In large companies, the frequent transfer of employees to other cities or even other countries makes them feel lonely, insecure and isolated. The bar language, lack of friends can contribute to the feeling of loneliness. Leaving home takes people away from their neighbors, friends, school and sometimes family. So they feel like a plant that was torn from one place and planted in another, but whose roots were left behind.
Those who are unmarried because they have not yet found a spouse also tend to experience periods of loneliness.
Many persons go through these moments in life, it takes time to trust new friends at a point to relax and get very comfortable in their company. We must think that no culture is right. Take the better of each one of them. Seek for qualities in others’ cultures. Sometimes just a question is necessary to start a long friendship.
Thinking positively also helps make new friends, especially if you're open to friendships with people of all ages. We can learn much from the life experience of others.
And we cannot let go our friendship with God; who created men and women:
Men think more and dream. Women dream more and think.
Thinking means to have brains. Dreaming means to have imagination.
Men are like oceans. Women are like lakes.
The oceans have pearls that adorns. The lakes have poetry that dazzles.
Men are the flying eagle. Women are the singing bird.
Flying is dominating the space. Singing is conquering the soul.
Men also have a lighthouse: consciousness. Women also have a star: hope.
The lighthouse guides. Hope saves.
Anyway, men are found where earth finishes. Women, are found where Sky starts!
Truely said about lonliness. Beautiful words about men and women.
ReplyDeleteRosane you are growing expert. Very well said artical. This is the bitter truth of our devloping society. What cost we are paying just to satisfy our ambitions.
ReplyDeleteNow we should stop and should give a look to ourselves and should think why we are running on an endless road. One day this run will snatch our health and our dreams from us.
Wake with us and feel inside happiness.
Thakns rosane for a good artical. You made this blog complete by posting diffrent topics.
Best of luck for a bright future